Symptoms of Failure to Launch Syndrome and What to Do

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By the time teenagers begin transitioning into young adulthood, they are typically ready to venture out into the world on their own. This is a new stage of excitement and experimentation for most young adults who are willing to leave their parents’ home and make their own path in life. Of course, this is also a very scary, uncertain time for young adults. How will they afford rent? Will they get a job? Can they keep up their grades if they go to college? All of these worries are normal and even expected at this time. But usually, young adults “launch” out of their parents’ or caregivers’ homes and make it happen. 

Sometimes, however, young adults don’t “launch” at all. They may go off to college and even graduate, but go right back home afterwards. This is known as failure to launch, and it impacts millions of young adults each and every year.

What is Failure to Launch Syndrome?

Failure to launch syndrome is not technically a syndrome, but instead it is a term used to describe young adults who do not venture out on their own when they reach adulthood. Individuals who have failure to launch syndrome struggle to leave their parents’ or caregivers’ home in order to begin their own lives. Sometimes, failure to launch syndrome is triggered by an experience or experiences. In other cases, there is no real reason behind why a young adult struggles to launch from the nest.

Risk Factors

There is no one reason why some young adults experience failure to launch syndrome, rather there are several risk factors that can contribute to the development of this issue. Consider the following:

  • Helicopter parenting — A helicopter parent is a parent who is constantly hovering over their child and watching all of their moves. They regularly insert themselves into their child’s business and even do things for them that they are more than capable of doing themselves. When parents helicopter parent regularly, it can create a lack of confidence and self-worth in a child. Therefore, the idea of venturing out on their own then becomes terrifying, as they do not feel they have the skills to be successful without their parents.
  • Substance abuse — If the parents or others in the household are abusing drugs and alcohol, the red flags a young adult would be showing regarding failure to launch could go unnoticed. There is no intervention to help mitigate this growing problem. Conversely, when the young adult is the one with the addiction, they might already be having problems supporting themselves, making them less likely to want to leave their parents’ home.
  • Mental illness — Mental illnesses like depression, anxiety, ADHD, and personality disorders can make a young adult fearful of the real world and overwhelmed by the thought of having to live in it on their own. This is even more pronounced in those who have not obtained treatment for their mental illness, as the only comfort they know comes from their parents. 

As mentioned before, not all failure to launch cases can be pinpointed back to a specific cause. However, being aware of what can trigger failure to launch syndrome can help stop its development or prevent it entirely. 

Failure to Launch Symptoms 

It is a common misconception that young adults who are dealing with failure to launch syndrome are simply just lazy. Most young adults have reasons as to why they are struggling to transition into adulthood. Unfortunately, these reasons need to be identified and addressed in order for the young adult to make real progress in their lives. 

Young adults experiencing failure to launch can exhibit several symptoms, ranging in intensity based on the severity of the situation. Some of the most common failure to launch symptoms can include, but are not limited to, the following:

  • Little or no ambition
  • No idea the direction of their lives 
  • Poor work ethic
  • Low motivation
  • Narcissism 
  • Inability to take responsibility
  • High expectations of others but not living up to high expectations of themselves with others
  • Problems with persistence
  • Procrastination about the next steps of life
  • Trouble managing stress

Not all young adults experiencing failure to launch are going to show the same symptoms as the next, but these are by far the most common symptoms that most people can exhibit at this time.

Treatment 

The absolute best option for a young adult dealing with failure to launch syndrome (and their family) is therapy. Depending on the severity of the problem, some therapy may be best conducted within a treatment center. 

Family members can also partake in therapy both with the young adult and on their own. Family members should also adopt good self-care practices such as getting enough sleep, eating well, setting boundaries, utilizing healthy coping skills, and so on.

If you suspect that the young adult in your life is suffering from failure to launch syndrome, know that you can help them through this. By reaching out for help, you can help your young adult finally make the transition they need to live happy, healthy lives.

Does Your Young Adult Need Help? Call Us Right Now.

We understand how difficult it can be to raise a child and guide them in the right direction so that they can be successful, highly-functional adults. We know that you and your family have gone through several challenges as a result of your young adult’s failure to launch and we can empathize with those experiences. We can also help. 

If your young adult is at a point in their life where they need to move into their adulthood and out of your home, call us right now. We can answer all of your questions and help develop a treatment plan that meets the unique needs of your young adult.

So, do not wait any longer. Call us right now and get your family started on a path to success. Your family and the young adult in your life are worth every step.

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